Girls Lift Weights Because They Can. Weird, I Know.
Posted on Mar 25th, 2010 by Tony GentilcoreOne of the cool things about CP is that when people walk through the doors, they kind of know what they’re getting themselves into. If they don’t, they quickly get the general idea when they notice that we have more power racks (5) than treadmills (1). Furthermore, we don’t have a single Smith machine, leg press, leg extension, leg curl, pec deck, or pink dumbbell for that matter. Truth be told, the only “machines” we have are a Schwinn Airdyne bike, a seated cable row and a functional trainer.

Needless to say, when someone walks onto the gym floor, they have a general idea of what they’re getting themselves into. Whether it’s throwing the med balls around, hitting the tire, pushing the Prowler, or just lifting some damn weight, it’s safe to assume that they’re going to be doing the exact opposite of what they’re accustomed to.
Put another way, they’re quickly going to learn the difference between training and trying (which is a term that I stole from physical therapist Michael Stare). As Mike points out:
Training means you have clear goals, and you are systematic, focused, and analytical in pursuing your goals. You eliminate chance from the equation. You are purposeful in your actions, and you are held accountable by measuring your progress towards your goals. You are efficient, and able to adapt to any scenario. That is training.
Conversely, trying is what everyone else does.
If you are merely trying, you allow chance to be your guide. You are haphazardly picking some exercises, sporadic and unfocused in your nutrition and exercise plan.

All that said, I was a bit dumbfounded the other weekend, when upon watching one of our females train, a gentleman who just so happened to finish his initial evaluation asked, “what is she training for? Does she play a sport or something?” To which I replied, “um, she’s just training because that’s what she wants to do.”
I mean, she was there for the exact same reason he was. To get better. She was there to train - nothing more, nothing less. However, because he saw her doing many of the same things he was doing (only better), his immediate conclusion was that she must be training for some kind of sport.
Likewise, my girlfriend told me a similar story the other day. Apparently, she was in the middle of her training session, alternating between sets of Goblet squats and seated cable rows, when she felt a tap on her shoulder. She turned around and saw one of the new female trainers standing there with a quizzical look on her face. Lisa (my girlfriend) removed her headphones, and the trainer simply asked, “are you training for a figure show or something?” My girlfriend chuckled, politely said no, and just told her that she’s just, you know, training. Plain and simple.
Why is it that no one ever blinks an eye or questions the asshat who’s curling in the squat rack, yet the second a girl grabs a bar and places it on her back, she’s somehow preparing for Ms. Universe? I’m surprised there hasn’t been a debate over whether not women should earn equal wages. What’s next, giving them the right to vote? Wait, come again? They ARE allowed to vote? What the hell is the world coming to???? LOL, just kidding. No, but seriously, goddamit!
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Weight training women added these pithy words on Jun 24th, 2010 at 4:04 pm |Biskit added these pithy words on Mar 25th, 2010 at 9:53 am |Someone asked the owner of my gym what I was training for, becaues they are afraid to ask me I guess, and he told them I was training for American Gladiator. I need a good gladiator name.
Nick added these pithy words on Mar 25th, 2010 at 10:08 am |Tony I think that this is a huge topic that you brought up because of its common place in our society. I want to rip my own guts out when I see these idiotic mindless trainers who have no idea what a goblet squat even is or does, and they try to put people on machines. “you want to work your legs? well lets start you on the leg press…” Oh, ok. Well I guess that makes sense. The only good thing a leg press is good for is having a place to collapse onto after pushing a weight sled around for 10 minutes. Great post Tony.
Robert added these pithy words on Mar 25th, 2010 at 11:00 am |Your voting comment was right on point. It’s ridiculous that people think it weird when women actually get real work done in the gym. It makes me think of when a female was telling me that she doesn’t lift weights because the last time she did her “guns” got bigger. I asked her what she did when she lifted weights and one of the things she did was curls. I asked, why were you doing curls if you don’t want bigger arms? Natural response, I don’t know.
Sabine added these pithy words on Mar 25th, 2010 at 11:17 am |Haha, I so know what you mean. I always feel like an alien at my gym cause I am the only woman who ever uses the squat rack and the “ugly” dumbbells. People keep asking my boyfriend, who is also my trainer ;-), if he a) prepares me for the Olypmics, b) wants to transform me into Wonder Woman or c)is afraid I will hit him. People talk sooo much bullshit!
nat loves salt added these pithy words on Mar 25th, 2010 at 11:51 am |THIS BLOG POST MIGHT GO ON MY HEADSTONE!!! Honest to god, people just don’t understaaaand that a woman can train ~ my usual “well, just trianing for life, I suppose” response warrants some of the most dumb-founded looks I have ever seen. It’s funny, actually. I almost feel like I have to justify my love for strength-training!! You should hear me ranting in my office right now (not too far off from my usual demeanor, but whatever)… you’ve opened pandora’s box with this one, dear Tony :)
nat added these pithy words on Mar 25th, 2010 at 11:54 am |ps. are you turning into a bonafide feminist, Tony?! I love it!
Michelle added these pithy words on Mar 25th, 2010 at 1:40 pm |First, I love all the female-centric posts lately. Second, um…yeah! Most of the guys in the weight room are used to seeing me there all the time, but the majority of them still look at me with fear in their eyes. I have one weight room buddy (ONE!) who jokes around with me and gives me high-fives and stuff. He told me once that all the guys are like, “who is that girl and what is she doing?! She’s intense!” I guess if sat around watching ESPN for 10 minutes between sets I would make more sense to them…
Bree@beeskneeslife added these pithy words on Mar 25th, 2010 at 1:49 pm |Wow. I am glad I am not the only one? I have been asked twice by trainers in my commercial gym “what I was training for.” One of them was actually nice and said I had really good form on everything, so that was cool. But why can’t I just train because I like to? They don’t seem to be bothered my the endless amounts of dudes curling in the squat rack.
Deborah added these pithy words on Mar 25th, 2010 at 3:21 pm |No one’s asked what I’m training for because it’s obvious I’m in a fat reduction/strength building phase (35 down, 20 to go). However, I get lots of looks because I’m lifting heavy, using zero machines and working up a bigger sweat than any of the guys in the area. About once a month a guy will comment to me, or my trainer, about how they’re impressed with how hard I’m working or how hard the move is that I’m in the middle of.
Michelle Becker added these pithy words on Mar 25th, 2010 at 11:38 pm |I had a female trainer ask me once what I was training for. I was like Um getting stronger, life you know why? she said she was curious because I trained hard, kept track of what I was doing in a journal, timed my rest and I quote “you do real exercises using real weight and don’t do any stupid stuff”
It was honestly the best compliment I have ever had
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Tony Gentilcore is a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS) and Certified Personal Trainer (CPT) through the National Strength and Conditioning Association. Currently residing in the greater Boston area and co-founder of